You may not believe this, but a few years ago, my only pleasure in life was shopping.
The kids had grown up, left home and I was left at home on my own. Unfortunately, during all of those years, I had actually forgotten about myself and only focused on the family. Looking back, it was really the wrong thing to do, and I should have taken some time out for myself.
When the kids left and i retired from London Escorts, my life was just empty and I did not know exactly what to do. My husband had a good job, so I started to shop for a hobby. It did not matter what it was – food, clothes, anything really. My husband and I are very close, so he did realize that there was a problem. Instead of getting angry, he started to take me away for weekends away to hotels where you could try different activities. Believe it or not, I have discovered that I am rather a good artist!
My friend Sandra from London Escorts has always enjoyed shopping, and I have to admit that I have thought that this was a habit that could get out of control. When it turned out that Sandra and her husband could not have children together, Sandra’s shopping habit just became worse, and she was now shopping out of control. The credit card bills kept coming in, and her husband felt sorry for her, and he just carried on paying for them. When they were on the verge on bankruptcy, I asked Sandra what she was shopping for. In was evident that all of her life, her shopping habit was filling in something which was lacking in her life.
Through all of the emotional turmoil and problems, Sandra and her husband finally learned how to talk to each other. It was not the easiest thing for them to do, but it gave them so much. Both of them were very career minded, and had replaced there childless lives with their careers.
What they had not realized was that they needed a focus other than working all of the time. Within a couple of months. They had formed new connections to each other, and were now more focused on sorting things out. They were saving money, and paying of all of those terrible shopping expenses. In the end, the final solution came from Sandra’s husband.
Traveling was one of their main hobbies, and in the end, Sandra’s husband suggested that they go traveling together. Sandra agreed and after a year, they disappeared off around the world. It was a real turn around for a couple who had just been living for themselves, now they were doing something together.